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Donor Love Means Knowing When to Say You’re Sorry

February 3, 2020 by Dennis Fischman Leave a Comment

At your nonprofit, does every staff member know how to communicate with donors?

Donor communications are the “customer service” of the nonprofit world. Show the donors the love and they will keep coming back to support the irreplaceable work you do. But treat them badly, and you are treating your clients badly, too, because you will run out of the money your programs need.

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If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you know that my wife, Rona, has experienced some bad customer service.

  • She’s received mail at an address she never intended to share.
  • She’s been lied to by people who tied to sell her their services (and then wondered why she wasn’t interested).
  • On Election Day, she’s been called by volunteers who had no idea why she should vote for their candidate. (They should have had better training!)

Let me tell you a story about Rona and good customer service that nonprofits can put into action.

When You’re Wrong, Apologize

Desert cockroachRona went to a professional conference in Arizona. Over the course of a four-night stay, as she tells the story:

  1. I couldn’t sleep until 3:30 AM (which was 5:30 according to my body) on the first night.
  2. It seemed like I lugged my bags a mile to get to my new room.
  3. I didn’t get the room I asked for– and was promised — after the sleepless night.
  4. I had to move my room again on night three, due to a broken pipe that flooded my room.
  5. A door fell off (possibly my fault, but I am not all that strong).
  6. I met my first (and I hope, my last) desert cockroach.

The hotel could have turned Rona into a voice for never holding that conference at that hotel again. All they had to do was treat her as the problem. (As so many businesses seem to do with dissatisfied customers!)

Here’s what they did instead, and I’m quoting directly from their email:

Good Morning Rona,

I am sorry to hear of the additional issues you experienced last night after you changed rooms from 5100.

I have to say, if I were you, I would be extremely frustrated and if you are, it’s OK with me.  What’s not OK with me is if you were charged full price for all of the issues you have experienced. 

In addition to my apology, I have posted a credit to you’re [sic] account in the amount of $300 + taxes.  It’s very uncommon for the types of issues you have experienced to occur, let alone happening all to the same person. 

I promise that we can do better and if you would like to consider a gift certificate to return and have the real Saguaro experience in the future, please let me know.

Sincerely,

Alfredo Anguiano

Assistant General Manager

When the Donor Has a Problem, Fix It

Now, you might be saying to yourself, “What could we possibly do to a donor that they would lose sleep over?”

I hope you are not letting any cockroaches crawl into your envelopes! But short of that, and unfortunately, nonprofits are doing plenty of things that make donors feel mistreated. Are you…

Calling your donors by the wrong name, or by no name at all?

Taking weeks or months to get around to thanking them?

Thanking them and asking them for a second donation in the same letter (the dreaded thask)?

Using their money for a different purpose than the one that was their reason for giving–and not even letting them know?

Taking the money and not saying anything about how you’re using it, or what impact they’re making, until it’s time to ask for more?

If your nonprofit is doing any of this to the donor, the best case is that she will call to complain. (Yes, that’s the best case! The worst case is that she will go off fuming into the sunset and you will lose a good donor forever.)

When Donors Complain, What Staff Should Do

complaintAs Claire Axelrad says: A Donor Complaint is a Terrible Thing to Waste.

A complaint is a signal that the person who’s calling cares deeply about your organization. You need to be prepared to respond to that signal.

The person who takes the complaint phone call may not be a development person. She may be a receptionist or just a random staff member who happens to be answering the phone. But everyone on your staff should be trained in what to do.

And what not to do! Quoting Claire again:

You know, that tendency we have to put down the phone after dealing with a difficult person and then launch into a barrage of derision for that person? This breeds contempt for complainers and creates a culture of condemnation rather than gratitude.

Fix the Problem, Don’t Spoil the Fundraising

There’s a difference between responding to donor complaints and being afraid of them. If you have a large enough pool of donors, you must expect complaints. If you’re doing fundraising effectively, it will sometimes puzzle or even annoy people who don’t know how fundraising works.

They’d be more annoyed if you closed your programs for lack of funds!

Jeff Brooks rightly says:

It’s important when dealing with complainers to be thankful. This person cares enough to communicate with you. She’s giving you a chance to serve her better and turn a negative feeling into a positive experience. Find out exactly what she wants — and do it.

But don’t change your entire program to fit the demands of a complainer.  Follow the much larger voice of those who donated.  Make it work for them!

 

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TY Thursday: What Have You Done for Your Donors?

May 24, 2018 by Dennis Fischman Leave a Comment

Action speaks louderAre you trying to come up with more and better ways to thank your donors? Sometimes, what you need is not a new and improved thank-you letter, video, gift, or donor appreciation event.

Sometimes you just have to give the donors what they want.

What do the donors want?

Tom Ahern, the dean of donor communications, says the content donors want is the answers to the questions, “What did you do with the money I gave you? What difference did it make?” And they want the joy of feeling they have helped make the world a better place.

Take Tom’s advice and you’ll know what to put in your newsletter (and on your website, and on your social media)–and what to leave out. Put in stories about real people whose lives are better “because you helped.”

Everything else–the grant you got, the award your Executive Director won, the amount of money you have to raise before your fiscal year end–is what you should leave out. Unless you can find a way to present it so that your donors feel great about themselves! Then, include it. But check with some actual donors first!

Kivi Leroux Miller, who’s always both practical and inspiring, says donors want giving to be easy–and after they give, they want you to know who they are.

Take Kivi’s advice. Giving can be easy if your website has a good landing page and if once they give, you immediately acknowledge the gift (so they know “it worked!”)

Knowing who your donors are is so vital, and yet so neglected! “It’s amazing how little many nonprofits can tell you about their donors beyond their giving history, and that makes good marketing and fundraising tough,” Kivi says. If you know what your donors care about–including interests that don’t seem at first to touch on your mission–you can send communications that make them feel “This was written just for me.”

Joe Garecht, The Fundraising Authority, says donors want non-reciprocated value. In other words, be generous to them, too! Don’t just trade return address labels for a donation.

Take Joe’s advice. Find ways to be helpful to your donors, without expecting anything in return, “such as when you come across two donors who might find value in working together in their businesses, and offer to set up and attend a lunch meeting to introduce them.”

Customer service is the best thank you.

People in business know that their customers’ experience with them is reason those customers come back–or don’t. No amount of advertising can overcome a customer’s interaction with an employee who is rude, inattentive, poorly informed, or just plain unhelpful.

For nonprofit organizations, donors are our customers. Yes, they are “buying” services for other people–our clients! But customer service is still the key to seeing those donors again. Let’s put it in terms that fit the nonprofit sector:

The best way to thank your donors: think about what matters to the donor--and give it to them. Share on X

What have you done for your donors that they will remember with a smile?

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TY Thursday: Give the Donors the Thanks They Want

January 26, 2017 by Dennis Fischman Leave a Comment

Action speaks louderAre you trying to come up with more and better ways to thank your donors? Sometimes, what you need is not a new and improved thank-you letter, video, gift, or donor appreciation event.

Sometimes you just have to give the donors what they want.

What do the donors want?

Tom Ahern, the dean of donor communications, says the content donors want is the answers to the questions, “What did you do with the money I gave you? What difference did it make?” And they want the joy of feeling they have helped make the world a better place.

Take Tom’s advice and you’ll know what to put in your newsletter (and on your website, and on your social media)–and what to leave out. Put in stories about real people whose lives are better “because you helped.”

Everything else–the grant you got, the award your Executive Director won, the amount of money you have to raise before your fiscal year end–is what you should leave out. Unless you can find a way to present it so that your donors feel great about themselves! Then, include it. But check with some actual donors first!

Kivi Leroux Miller, who’s always both practical and inspiring, says donors want giving to be easy–and after they give, they want you to know who they are.

Take Kivi’s advice. Giving can be easy if your website has a good landing page and if once they give, you immediately acknowledge the gift (so they know “it worked!”)

Knowing who your donors are is so vital, and yet so neglected! “It’s amazing how little many nonprofits can tell you about their donors beyond their giving history, and that makes good marketing and fundraising tough,” Kivi says. If you know what your donors care about–including interests that don’t seem at first to touch on your mission–you can send communications that make them feel “This was written just for me.”

Joe Garecht, The Fundraising Authority, says donors want non-reciprocated value. In other words, be generous to them, too! Don’t just trade return address labels for a donation.

Take Joe’s advice. Find ways to be helpful to your donors, without expecting anything in return, “such as when you come across two donors who might find value in working together in their businesses, and offer to set up and attend a lunch meeting to introduce them.”

Customer service is the best thank you.

People in business know that their customers’ experience with them is reason those customers come back–or don’t. No amount of advertising can overcome a customer’s interaction with an employee who is rude, inattentive, poorly informed, or just plain unhelpful.

For nonprofit organizations, donors are our customers. Yes, they are “buying” services for other people–our clients! But customer service is still the key to seeing those donors again. Let’s put it in terms that fit the nonprofit sector:

The best way to thank your donors: think about what matters to the donor--and give it to them. Share on X

What have you done for your donors that they will remember with a smile?

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