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When People are in Mourning, Don’t Try to Sell!

October 16, 2014 by Dennis Fischman 4 Comments

Thank you to everyone who expressed their sympathies on the death of my brother Ron Fischman.

And no thanks to the sales rep who called my dear wife Rona the day after Ron died…and wouldn’t take no for an answer.

We heard the news of Ron’s death on Wednesday, October 1. On Thursday, a company that does business with Google called Rona about her business page.

“Good morning, Rona, and how are you today?”

“Not very good, actually. My brother-in-law died yesterday.”

“Oh, so sorry to hear that. I won’t take much of your time. I noticed that your company had recently moved. Would you like help changing your physical address on Google?”

“I don’t want to buy anything today, but if you can help me with that, let’s take a minute and do it.”

“Great! I also want to tell you about the SEO services our company can offer your business.”

“What? Did you hear what I just said? What kind of monster are you?”

And the sales rep hung up.

Whether you’re selling a product or a service or asking for a donation, when someone is in mourning, just stop. Period. “I’m sorry for your loss, and I’ll call back another time” is acceptable. Nothing more, not one word.

If common decency isn’t enough reason, think of this: do you want people to think of their loved one’s death every time they think of you?

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Bringing New Board Members on Board

September 30, 2014 by Dennis Fischman Leave a Comment

A nonprofit organization where I used to work was proud that it had recruited the Director of Administration & Finance from a state association to its Board. After a year, he agreed to become the Treasurer. Then, one of his personal friends fell on hard times and used our services.

“Wow,” he said, “I didn’t know we did that!” And “Wow,” he said, “I didn’t know we could do that!” He told the story of how the organization had helped his friend forever after.

A happy ending, yes. But what if he didn’t happen to know any of our clients personally? We would have failed him—because we should have told him a story like that when he came on board.

Read more at

http://www.trippbraden.com/2014/09/30/new-board-members/

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Communications Media Come & Go. How Do We Respond?

September 29, 2014 by Dennis Fischman Leave a Comment

manual typewriter

Someday Facebook will be replaced. It may not be Ello that replaces it. It was not Google+.

But something will come along that does what users want better than Facebook–or shows them new, exciting things to do–and Facebook will go the way of the manual typewriter.

What should we learn from the fact that communications media come and go?

One lesson is to value what doesn’t change.

If you learn this lesson, you will find out as much about your audience as you can, and figure out what they want to hear about, where, and how.  Then you’ll craft your message to make it stand out, and you’ll offer your audience a chance to take actions you want them to take (whether that’s eating differently, donating to causes, or marching on Washington).

A different lesson would be to keep track and keep up.

Focusing on your audience and your strategy will always serve you–but it may not be enough. If you’re trying to reach people by calling their land lines, for instance, you’re going to be missing a lot of people who exclusively use mobile phones.

You might decide that the ever-changing nature of communications technology means you simply have to keep track of the changes and keep up with the technology.

If you take this lesson instead, you still don’t have to fall victim to Bright Shiny Object Syndrome and chase every new, cool trend that comes along.

You will realize, however, that new technologies build on old ones. Imagine nobody had learned how to work a manual typewriter. There wouldn’t be anyone around today who knew how to use a computer keyboard.  Or, suppose you had a fax machine but no email. Other people would be able to join distribution lists, and you would be left out in the cold.

Pay attention to timeless truths. Keep track of the latest thing. Opposite ways of facing the same challenge. Is there a way to do both?

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