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Another Way to Lose a Donor

April 3, 2014 by Dennis Fischman 7 Comments

Last week, I told you how The Nation lost me as a monthly donor: they sent me repeated emails addressed to the wrong name.  Sadly, they have not even noticed my post, even though I emailed and tweeted them directly.  (Maybe I should have called them In These Times?)

Let me tell you another sad story about an organization that lost me as a donor.  You can learn what not to do from the example.

Do you remember the earthquake in Haiti four years ago?  Too few people do.  But here in Somerville, Massachusetts, many of my neighbors were born in Haiti.

My wife Rona and I paid a lot of attention to events on the island.  We realized that Haiti would need help for years: not only disaster relief, but reconstruction and development.

We chose to give a significant amount–significant for us, at least–to Haiti annually through the American Jewish World Service.  It’s a well-run organization, and giving though AJWS would let people in Haiti know that Jews as well as Christians cared about them.

AJWS acknowledged our gift and thanked us for it.  They did it again the next year.  Then, they started soliciting us to give to causes all over the world–at the same high level that we had committed to Haiti.

Clearly, they did not know what mattered to us.  Did they even care?  Or did they think they knew better where our limited resources should go?

Rona and I will be giving to Haiti again this year, but maybe through ESPWA.  Perhaps through Partners in Health.  Probably not through AJWS.  And it’s a pity.  We were proud to donate through them until they gave us the message we were not doing enough.

What message are you sending your donors?

 

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How to Lose Dennis Fischman as a Donor

March 27, 2014 by Dennis Fischman 14 Comments

“Dear Bernard…”

I’ve been reading The Nation all my adult life.  I’ve subscribed to it for thirty years.  And I used to give a donation every month–but not any more.

“Bernard, don’t let them win!”

Sorry.  There are other progressive organizations.  Hell, there are other progressive magazines.  If I want to do my part to keep the right-wingers from stamping corporate logos on people’s minds, I can give my money elsewhere.

“Bernard, we want you back.”

Too bad.  Because my name is not Bernard.

Now, you might think I’m being petty here.  I do read The Nation ever week, right?  And I pass along each week’s issue to a friend who reads them too.  What’s more, the magazine has moved into the 21st century with a good website and a diverse set of contributing editors that keep it lively and on point.

Why should something as minor as the wrong name lose me as a donor?

First, because no one’s name is minor to them.

Second, because if they’re making this mistake with me, how many others are they offending with similar mistakes?  Why should my donation fill a hole they’re digging themselves, because they can’t get a person’s name right?

Third, because when I point it out to them, they don’t respond.  I reply to the emails.  I tweet the editor personally.  And yes, I’m going to call them and find a human being to speak to live.  But that’s not the donor’s job. And most donors won’t do it.  And you will lose them, maybe for a lifetime.

Is your nonprofit telling donors they are irrelevant?

As a donor, do you feel welcomed and cherished?  Or do you feel nameless?

May 5 update: the fundraising staff finally responded and promised to do better.  Let’s hope the social media staff learn too!

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Fundraising the Dead

February 24, 2014 by Dennis Fischman Leave a Comment

If you’re  a fundraiser for a nonprofit organization, you have to read Fundraising the Dead, by Sheila Connolly.  How many other chances will you have to see someone in your profession solve a murder mystery?

Nell Pratt is the Director of Development at the Pennsylvania Antiquarian Society. Hours before her big fundraising event, a blueblood Board member informs her that priceless documents from the Board member’s family collection have disappeared from the building. Then, after the gala, Nell discovers the body of the man who worked most on those documents, dead in an upstairs room.

Is it murder? How will Nell get the documents back, and save her job? And is her relationship with her boss, the elegant Charles Elliot Worthington, going to survive the crisis?

The book gives a good idea of how fundraisers spend their work days, and the relationship between staff and major donors. The author has done the work herself. Like me, she speaks nonprofit.

As a mystery, this is a fun read.  If you are looking for a puzzle that will tax your brain, this isn’t it. I figured out who stole the documents halfway through the book, and who committed the murder almost immediately thereafter. But it was a pleasure to follow the relationships between Nell, Board member Marty Terwilliger, and her nephew Special Agent James Morrison (yes, he went down to the wrong side of town). Even your non-fundraising friends will enjoy it.

Have you read any other fiction about nonprofit fundraisers or communicators? Would you please recommend it in the comments section below?

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